Toxic Love

'indira and dean have compiled a thought-provoking masterpiece that compels the reader to take a fresh look at the addictive cycle of violence; repetitive behaviour patterns and the build-up of tolerance. toxic love is an informative discourse and will be useful to a wide audience; victims, perpetrators and therapists as well. the wisdom in this work reflects the authors expertise and profound understanding of the human psyche.' Pearl Fernandes M. Clin. Psych, Psychologist 

'Toxic Love shines a light on understanding the motivations for a perpetrator to abuse their partners, how it develops into such a pattern, why victims can't leave and how people can change. Highly recommend this book! A great read for everyone to gain a deeper insight into toxic love and its underpinnings.' Julia Green, Naturopath, Health Squad

'Having worked in men's development for many years I've been very concerned about men that commit domestic violence. As a result, I interviewed the co-author of Toxic Love, Dean Quirke, and we explored domestic violence from a man's point of view. His and Indira's book was in development when we did the interviews and now it's released I can see the depth of thinking and experience that has gone into it. I'm sure it will become a valued resource as their new concepts are digested and tested by practitioners in the field.' Hilton Barr Director at 'Cant-2-Can'

'Toxic Love is an essential piece of work that affects so many in society today. The book is highly informative and inspiring in a way that will bring so much hope and light to those affected by this challenge. What stood out was the following areas I passionately believe are critical points in that the book looks to inspire and provide hope: Mother/child attachment is a powerful part as I believe that the bond between a mother and a child is critical to anyone's upbringing. Why do we need a father? The need for a father figure plays a significant part in every child's upbringing, which is critical in the way a child feels growing up. The anatomy of emotions is a fascinating subject as it highlights how controlling emotions play a significant role in our behaviour. It is a compelling and engaging read that will go a long way to providing hope and inspiring individuals to navigate their way through these ch...

Indira Haracic-Novic, a clinical psychologist, has been working as a clinician, clinical consultant and writer in the area of war and refugee-related trauma, since the beginning of the war in Bosnia and Herzegovina in 1992.
She has worked at STARTTS (NSW Service for the Treatment and Rehabilitation of Torture and Trauma Survivors) since 1996. She provides counselling treatment for the victims of torture, rape and abuse.
As a clinical consultant, Indira provides clinical supervision, training, consultations and support for clinicians, counsellors and case workers in their work with refugees and victims of trauma and abuse.
Her particular interest and expertise is in the use of a psycho-educational approach in psychotherapy to aid in the recovery of trauma survivors.
Indira is trained in Transactional Analysis (TA), EMDR and Trauma Therapy. Dean Quirke specialises in men's health and wellbeing, primary prevention education and community development. His area of expertise is in the use of behavioural science and primary prevention strategies to help empower boys and men.
He has worked and partnered with key stakeholders with-in the community to tackle a variety of social issues that impact the lives of young men, including domestic violence, community, youth violence, suicide, social isolation, addictions, unemployment and lack of purpose and direction.
In 2015, Dean founded the Young Men's Group and Empowering Youth, Changing Lives Program. These initiatives have since made an impact in the lives of over 500 young men from all walks of life across Sydney, including Fairfield, Bankstown, Canterbury, Mosman, Maroubra and Botany.
His skills in facilitating workshops are highly sought after in the areas of youth and men's wellness and community development.