Erica Komisar – författare

A powerful look at the importance of a mother’s presence in the first years of life.‘A beautiful reminder to slow down and prioritise connection. A must-read for every mother seeking emotional security over all.’ KOURTNEY KARDASHIANIn this important and conversation-starting book, psychoanalyst and parent coach Erica Komisar offers a provocative and compelling premise: a mother's emotional and physical presence in her child's life during the first three years is crucial to their development.Being There reveals why children of present mothers have a greater chance of growing up emotionally healthy, happy, secure and resilient. When that essential presence goes missing, the child is at higher risk for social, emotional, and developmental issues, both immediate and long term. In other words, when it comes to connecting with your baby or toddler, more is more.Compassionate and balanced, and focusing on the emotional health and well-being of children as well as that of the mothers who care for them, this book shows mothers and fathers how to give their children the best chance for developing into healthy and loving adults. Based on more than two decades of clinical work, established psychoanalytic theory, and the most current and cutting-edge neurobiological research on caregiving, attachment, and brain development, Being There explains:- How to establish emotional connection with a newborn or young child -- regardless of whether you're able to pause your career to stay home,- How to select and train quality childcare if necessary -- and how to ease transitions and minimize stress for your baby or toddler,- What's true and false about widely held beliefs like 'Babies are resilient' and how to combat feelings of post-partum depression or boredom,- How women and their partners can take control of their choices around work to provide for their family's emotional needs in the first three years. Being a mother isn’t easy. But with support, emotional awareness, and coping skills, it can be the most magical -- and essential -- work we’ll ever do.

This is a comprehensive guide for parents who want to raise emotionally healthy, resilient adolescents in a time of great stress when anxiety and mental health disorders are epidemic.In these times of great stress for our kids, resilience is not a given. The epidemic of mental health disorders in adolescents has made parenting even more challenging, but parents can still have an enormous impact on the health and well-being of their child. This book offers parents the tools they need to navigate this tumultuous time of change and create a continuous deep connection with their child. With covered topics such as anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral issues, and addiction, parents will learn how they can recognize mental health disorders as well as obtain compassionate and practical advice on how to address these issues if they occur.

A framework for child-centred divorce from acclaimed psychoanalyst and award-winning author, Erica Komisar.A good divorce is better than a bad marriage, but for children that doesn’t make the split any easier. Legal decisions have emotional consequences. Well-meaning parents can become hostile, insecure or jealous, and well-adjusted kids can grieve the loss of the family unit, rage at the pain that they feel, or prey on parental guilt.In The Child-Healthy Divorce, acclaimed psychoanalyst and award-winning author Erica Komisar marshals more than 30 years of clinical experience and extensive research to show readers how to make an effective plan that centres children’s needs. Her advice includes:- how to talk to your children about what’s happening, - how to maintain normal routines,- what to know about kids of different ages.For example, interrupting a child’s attachment with the primary caregiver before age three can lead to behavioural problems later in life. Teens going to college also need a stable home as a foundation to establish their own independence.With numerous case studies and practical strategies, the book shows parents: - how to create age-appropriate custody arrangements, - reassure kids without invalidating their feelings, - how to build a positive support system, As well as It also provides helpful guidance about new partners, blended families, and other special situations. Most importantly, it offers hope.No one with kids wants a divorce, but if that step becomes necessary, this book can help readers establish the emotional security that their children need for success in life.