Your Friend Forever, A. Lincoln

Charles B. Strozier, a historian and psychoanalyst, is a professor of history at John Jay College and the Graduate Center, CUNY, and faculty, training, and supervising analyst at TRISP in New York City. His books include Lincoln's Quest for Union: Public and Private Meanings (1982) and Until the Fires Stopped Burning: 9/11 and New York City in the Words and Experiences of Survivors and Witnesses (2011).

Charles B. Stozier long ago established himself as a pioneering student of Lincoln's inner life. He now returns to the field with the first comprehensive study of Lincoln's close friendship with Joshua Speed. If history is any guide, Strozier's compelling account of this crucial aspect of the Lincoln biography is sure to become definitive. -- James Oakes, Distinguished Professor of History, Graduate Center, City University of New York Strozier is a masterful psychobiographer, one who manages to combine diligent research into archival materials and other types of primary sources with a creative and often inspired approach to the close reading of documents. That is a rare combination. -- Matthew Pinsker, Dickinson College, author of Lincoln's Sanctuary: Abraham Lincoln and the Soldiers' Home Charles Strozier is unique in his combination of psychological and historical imagination. This highly original book tells us a great deal about Lincoln himself, about the nature of friendship, and about the surprising ways in which friendship can contribute to greatness. -- Robert Jay Lifton, author, Witness to an Extreme Century: A Memoir No one has previously succeeded in re-creating the nuances of the Lincoln-Speed friendship as deeply or seriously as Prof. Strozier. Moreover, I think it would be safe to say that Strozier is uniquely situated within the Lincoln scholarly fraternity to write on precisely this subject. -- Allen Guelzo, Gettysburg College, author of Gettysburg: The Last Invasion Lincoln was the hub of an important wheel of political and social life, and Strozier has repaired the missing spoke that is Joshua Speed. A He has done so in part by re-connecting Speed to Lincoln's other friends and acquaintances, to provide as full a picture of these young American men's interior lives as we are likely to get.A His use of often-ignored archival sources is brilliant. -- James M. Cornelius, Lincoln curator, Abraham Lincoln Presidential Library and Museum Bringing the twin skills of a professional historian and trained psychoanalyst, Strozier has beautifully illuminated the real significance of the relationship between Joshua Speed and Abraham Lincoln in a crucial formative period in each of their lives. He has shown that their intense relationship was an essential part of both of their developments as mature, heterosexual males. In the process of the unfolding understanding of their bond, Strozier also has given us a new and deeper insight into the cause of Lincoln's depression and his vacillating courtship of Mary Todd. We also learn about the nature of male bonding in 19th century America. This is a must-read for anyone who is interested in and wants a nuanced understanding of one of the most important figures in American history. -- David M. Terman, M.D., former director of the Chicago Institute for Psychoanalysis In this compact and fluent study of Lincoln's anguished inner life in the five years preceding his 1842 marriage, Strozier anatomizes his intense, complex and therapeutic relationship with his closest friend, Joshua Speed. Drawing on a huge range of previously scattered sources (as well as current psychological notions of mutuality and empathy), he meticulously recreates the mirrored crises both men underwent as they lurched into the desired but dreaded realm of marriage and sexual intimacy. It will stand as the definitive account of this critical period in Lincoln's life. -- Cullom Davis, former director, Lincoln Legal Papers, and emeritus professor of history, University of Illinois-Springfield Strozier brings a shrewd psychoanalyist's insight to this vivid chronicle of perhaps the closest and most consequential friendship of Abraham Lincoln's life. -- Geoffrey C. Ward, author of A First-Class Temperment: The Emergence of Franklin Roosevelt An enjoyable look at a man on the 'edge of politics' who had a strong influence on Lincoln's development. Kirkus Review Anyone wanting to know more about the elusive private Lincoln will need to read this book. Library Journal The men's frank exchanges about their anxieties proved therapeutic, Strozier compellingly argues, enabling both men to ultimately take the plunge into marriage and become, for lack of a better phrase, grown-ups. -- Ronald K. Fried Daily Beast Charles Strozier's brisk, fluent examination of Lincoln's profound and psychologically consequential friendship with Speed -- J. Michael Lennon Illinois Times Few people played as large a role as Joshua Speed did in helping Abraham Lincoln become Abraham Lincoln. American history was shaped nearly 180 years ago when the tall, thin, ambitious but uncertain 28-year-old walked into Speed's store and struck up a conversation. -- Patrick T. Reardon Chicago Tribune Original, perceptive and persuasive. Wall Street Journal well-thought-out psychohistorical case study Choice Given his psychoanalytic expertise, Strozier's high quality psychohistorical work helps illuminate important emotioanl events that other biographers and historians have left in the shadows. Psychohistory News This is a useful, timely, and thought-provoking book for Lincoln scholars and general readers. Strozier is to be commended for producing it. Civil War Book Review

• PrefaceAcknowledgmentsA Note on Sources1. Beginnings2. Two Friends, One Bed3. Friendship4. Depression5. Sex and Prostitution6. Broken Engagement7. The Winter of Discontent8. Kentucky Bluegrass9. Homeward Bound10. A Vicarious Romance11. Mary Todd, Once Again12. The Crucible of GreatnessConclusions: On FriendshipList of AbbreviationsNotesIndex