If her subject matter is personal, then her language is even more personal, and she is good at saying it in a seemingly casual but actually ingenious way. Her words are full of wisdom and rationality, and often have the meaning of digression and the purport of implication. Perhaps the greatest demand of readers for a poet is not to expect him/her to tell us something we don't know, but to reveal what we know in unexpected ways. In this regard, the author has done quite well.
