Katherine Sullivan – författare

This is the first neurodivergent parenting book that works across every diagnosis — autism, ADHD, dyslexia, twice-exceptionality, and all the ways they overlap. The first that gives you the science and the exact words to say. The first that sees your child completely — not as a problem to be fixed, but as a person wired differently, with a specific architecture of strengths and challenges that, once understood, changes everything.You've read six books. Tried four approaches. You love your child completely — and some days you are completely lost.You are not failing. You are navigating something genuinely hard, without nearly enough support, and without a map built for where you actually are.Shining Minds is the map.Inside, you will find the SHINE framework — a practical, research-backed approach that covers every stage from first diagnosis to adolescence. You'll learn why meltdowns are neurological events, not behavioural choices, and exactly what to do during each of the five types. You'll discover why the three senses nobody taught you about explain most of what happens in your home. You'll understand masking — why your child holds it together all day at school and detonates the moment they see your face, and why that is the deepest form of trust.And if, somewhere in these pages, you find yourself thinking this isn't just about my child — this is me: there is a chapter for you too.Shining Minds is warm, rigorously researched, and relentlessly practical. It will make you feel less alone. And it will give you something no other book in this space has offered: a complete picture of your neurodivergent child — and the tools to build a life that fits who they actually are.Perfect for parents of neurodivergent children from toddlers through teens. Essential reading for anyone recently diagnosed — or recently realised they might be.

The Couple's Guide to Neurodivergent Parenting is the first book written specifically for couples raising a neurodivergent child — the book that finally asks what this experience does to the relationship, and gives you real, honest, practical tools to find your way back.Everyone asked how your child was doing. Nobody asked how you were doing — as a couple.Somewhere between the first diagnosis and now, something happened to the two of you. Not dramatically. Not with a fight or a clear breaking point. You just got so consumed by the most important thing : your child, their needs, the relentless work of understanding and advocating and surviving, that you quietly lost each other in the process.You still love each other. But some days you feel more like co-managers than partners. More like people who share a crisis than people who chose each other.This is not a book about parenting better together. It is a book about you, the partnership that has been carrying everything, without a map, without nearly enough support, and without anyone asking the right questions.You will learn why the distance between you is neurological before it is relational — and why that changes everything about how to close it. Why your grief over the diagnosis is almost certainly not synchronised — and what that desfase looks like from each side. Why the load imbalance installed itself without anyone deciding to create it, and how to have the conversation that actually moves something. Why desire didn't disappear because you stopped wanting each other, but because the conditions for desire have been absent and exactly how to rebuild them.For couples where one or both partners is also neurodivergent: there is a full chapter for you, with the specific reframings that change everything about how you read each other's behaviour.For any couple raising a neurodivergent child who has felt, at some point, that they were doing this entirely alone, even with someone right beside them. You are not alone. And you are not too far gone.

You've tried the planners. The apps. The productivity systems. And they worked, sometimes, for a while, until they didn't.This is a different kind of book.This book brings together two of the most powerful frameworks for understanding human behavior — Stoic philosophy and modern ADHD neuroscience — and shows why they belong together. Not because Stoicism will fix your ADHD. It won't. But because the philosophers who wrote the most practical wisdom about the human mind were, in many ways, describing yours.Marcus Aurelius wrote private notes to himself every day, reminding himself to focus, to start, to not get pulled into other people's chaos. He argued himself out of bed every morning. He returned to the same ideas over and over because once was never enough. If that sounds familiar, this book was written for you.Each of the 20 chapters connects a core Stoic idea — the dichotomy of control, amor fati, memento mori, the inner pilot — to a specific feature of the ADHD experience: time blindness, rejection sensitivity, impulse control, shame, emotional intensity, executive dysfunction. Every chapter ends with micro-practices that take two minutes or less, designed for a brain that doesn't sit still on command.This is not a self-help book that asks you to become someone else. It's a philosophy book that starts with who you actually are.No toxic productivity. No cold showers. No pretending the difficulty isn't real.Just tools. For your kind of mind.

The Neurodivergent Couple is the first book written specifically for couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent — autistic, ADHD, or both — who want to understand what is actually happening between them. Not what should be happening. What is.You have been trying to reach each other for years. You just did not have the right dictionary.You love each other. That much is clear. What is less clear is why the same conversation keeps ending somewhere neither of you intended. Why the person who is warm and capable in the world seems to become someone different at home. Why you can go through the same moment and come out of it with completely different experiences of what just happened.This is not a failure of love. It is a failure of translation.You will learn why the shutdown that looks like contempt is a nervous system at its limit. Why the explosion that looks like aggression arrives before thinking can intervene and passes faster than it should. Why the person who remembered every detail about you in the first year cannot reliably remember a commitment made last week. Why the withdrawal from physical touch after a long day has nothing to do with desire and everything to do with sensory load. Why autistic burnout looks like depression but responds to completely different things. Why hyperfocus moved on from you and what that actually means about the love that is still there.This book does not ask either of you to be different from what you are. It asks both of you to understand each other accurately, for possibly the first time. And it gives you the specific tools, the scripts, the frameworks, and the shared language to do that.Through the stories of Nora and Daniel, Sofia and James, Marco and Tom, Priya and Kieran, and others, you will see your own relationship described with a precision that may feel, at moments, like being read. That is exactly what this book is supposed to feel like.For the neurodivergent person who has spent years in relationships trying to be understood. For the partner who loves someone neurodivergent and has not always known what they were loving. For the couple who suspects that what they thought was incompatibility might actually be translation.Part of the Shining Minds series.