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Many parents struggle to address issues of God, religion and faith with their children in ways that promote honesty, curiosity and independence. Russell approaches this touchy topic with hard data, scientific thought, scholarly research and everyday experience. She offers straightforward advice with respect for a full range of ways to view the world.  Topics include: · How to talk to kids about death without the comforts of religion · How to navigate touchy extended family members and religious friends · A Cheat Sheet to World Religions · A guide to popular religious holidays. · Timelines for how to talk to kids about religion at every age · How to observe holidays in a secular way

Author, Peter Gajdics, spent six years in a bizarre form of conversion therapy that attempted to “cure” him of his homosexuality. Kept with other patients in a cult-like home in British Columbia, Canada, Gajdics was under the authority of a dominating, rogue psychiatrist who controlled his patients, in part, by creating and exploiting a false sense of family. Juxtaposed against his parents' tormented past - his mother's incarceration and escape from a communist concentration camp in post-World War II Yugoslavia and his father's upbringing as an orphan in war-torn Hungary - THE INHERITANCE OF SHAME explores the universal themes of childhood trauma, oppression and intergenerational pain. Told over a period of decades, the story shows us the damaging repercussions of conversion therapy and reminds us that resilience, compassion and the courage to speak the truth exist within us all.

One hundred years of research and science has given rise to a new, yet verifiable, truth - some of the world's most popular child-rearing methods, long believed to be harmless alternatives to spanking, drive deep divisions in parent-child relationships and cause lasting damage to children's self-esteem. These methods include punishments (such as yelling, threats, timeouts, grounding, revoking privileges and docking pocket money), as well as rewards (such as star charts, bribery and praise.) And, yet, for many parents, these methods seem to be the only thing keeping their households from dissolving into utter chaos. Take away their most useful parenting tools and how can they expect their homes to function properly? How do they enforce limits or end conflict or maintain any semblance of authority or control? Built around ten fundamental truths that explain why children behave the way they do (often at the most inopportune times!), PARENTSHIFT argues that only one child-rearing model - a model the authors call heart-centred - is capable of giving children what they need while honouring their ages, stages and natural temperaments. Other popular models rely on tactics that work against these truths which, often, undermine parents' efforts and sabotage their goals. The fallout can be devastating. Providing brand-new toolkits and a skill set that will enhance not only one's parenting. but one's life, PARENTSHIFT shows parents how to set and enforce limits, deal with out-of-control behaviour, motivate children to live by the Golden Rule and solve virtually any problem - from toddler to teen - while maintaining a strong relationship and preserving each child's sense of self-worth.