#1 New York Times bestselling authors Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott are psychologists and founders of the game-changing online assessments: SYMBIS.com, BetterLove.com, and Yada.com. Their best-selling books include Love Talk, The Good Fight, Crazy Good Sex, and the award-winning Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts. Their work has been featured in the New York Times and USA Today and on CNN, Good Morning America, the Today Show, The View, and Oprah. LesAndLeslie.com

• Contents Real-Life Problem Solvers 9 Workbook Exercises 11 Acknowledgments 13 Introduction: More Today Than Yesterday 17 1. Love Is Not Enough 21 A marriage survives and thrives when a couple learns to use problems to their advantage. 2. Why Every Marriage Has Everyday Problems 31 All your difficulties can be traced to one of five sources and knowing the source makes all the difference. 3. Tackle This Problem First and All Others Get Easier 53 A fine line separates an obstacle from an opportunity and it's discovered the instant a couple sees it with new eyes. 4. Who Said Sex Was a Problem? 71 The magic of marriage inevitably wanes if you don't recognize and accept the two sides of intimacy and sex (not to mention having a baby). 5. The Six Subtle Saboteurs of Every Marriage 93 Learn to defend your marriage against these sneak attacks and you will have built an impenetrable fortress of love. 6. How to Solve Any Problem in Five (Not-So-Easy) Steps 115 Discover the slumbering powers" of your marriage and use this proven plan for revolutionizing your love life. 7. Joining Your Spirits Like Never Before 139 Deep down in the soul of your marriage is a thirst for connection that can only be quenched when you drink from the ultimate source of love. 8. The Good That Comes from a Problem-Solving Marriage 167 Every day your love expands when you clearly see you've become more richly yourselves together than you could have ever managed alone. Appendix: Practical Help for a Marriage in Crisis 175 Notes 201 About the Authors 205

#1 New York Times bestselling authors Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott are psychologists and founders of the game-changing online assessments: SYMBIS.com, BetterLove.com, and Yada.com. Their best-selling books include Love Talk, The Good Fight, Crazy Good Sex, and the award-winning Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts. Their work has been featured in the New York Times and USA Today and on CNN, Good Morning America, the Today Show, The View, and Oprah. LesAndLeslie.com

• Contents Real-Life Problem Solvers 9 Workbook Exercises 11 Acknowledgments 13 Introduction: More Today Than Yesterday 17 1. Love Is Not Enough 21 A marriage survives and thrives when a couple learns to use problems to their advantage. 2. Why Every Marriage Has Everyday Problems 31 All your difficulties can be traced to one of five sources and knowing the source makes all the difference. 3. Tackle This Problem First and All Others Get Easier 53 A fine line separates an obstacle from an opportunity and it's discovered the instant a couple sees it with new eyes. 4. Who Said Sex Was a Problem? 71 The magic of marriage inevitably wanes if you don't recognize and accept the two sides of intimacy and sex (not to mention having a baby). 5. The Six Subtle Saboteurs of Every Marriage 93 Learn to defend your marriage against these sneak attacks and you will have built an impenetrable fortress of love. 6. How to Solve Any Problem in Five (Not-So-Easy) Steps 115 Discover the slumbering powers" of your marriage and use this proven plan for revolutionizing your love life. 7. Joining Your Spirits Like Never Before 139 Deep down in the soul of your marriage is a thirst for connection that can only be quenched when you drink from the ultimate source of love. 8. The Good That Comes from a Problem-Solving Marriage 167 Every day your love expands when you clearly see you've become more richly yourselves together than you could have ever managed alone. Appendix: Practical Help for a Marriage in Crisis 175 Notes 201 About the Authors 205

#1 New York Times bestselling authors Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott are psychologists and founders of the game-changing online assessments: SYMBIS.com, BetterLove.com, and Yada.com. Their best-selling books include Love Talk, The Good Fight, Crazy Good Sex, and the award-winning Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts. Their work has been featured in the New York Times and USA Today and on CNN, Good Morning America, the Today Show, The View, and Oprah. LesAndLeslie.com

• Contents Real-Life Problem Solvers 9 Workbook Exercises 11 Acknowledgments 13 Introduction: More Today Than Yesterday 17 1. Love Is Not Enough 21 A marriage survives and thrives when a couple learns to use problems to their advantage. 2. Why Every Marriage Has Everyday Problems 31 All your difficulties can be traced to one of five sources and knowing the source makes all the difference. 3. Tackle This Problem First and All Others Get Easier 53 A fine line separates an obstacle from an opportunity and it's discovered the instant a couple sees it with new eyes. 4. Who Said Sex Was a Problem? 71 The magic of marriage inevitably wanes if you don't recognize and accept the two sides of intimacy and sex (not to mention having a baby). 5. The Six Subtle Saboteurs of Every Marriage 93 Learn to defend your marriage against these sneak attacks and you will have built an impenetrable fortress of love. 6. How to Solve Any Problem in Five (Not-So-Easy) Steps 115 Discover the slumbering powers" of your marriage and use this proven plan for revolutionizing your love life. 7. Joining Your Spirits Like Never Before 139 Deep down in the soul of your marriage is a thirst for connection that can only be quenched when you drink from the ultimate source of love. 8. The Good That Comes from a Problem-Solving Marriage 167 Every day your love expands when you clearly see you've become more richly yourselves together than you could have ever managed alone. Appendix: Practical Help for a Marriage in Crisis 175 Notes 201 About the Authors 205