This is a guidebook to help children who:hurt, hit, bite, smash, kick, shout, scream or who are out of control, hyperaroused or hyperactivecan only discharge their angry feelings in verbal or physical attacks, rather than being able to think about and reflect on what they feelare angry because it is easier than feeling hurt or sadare locked in anger or rage because of sibling rivalryare controlling and punitiveregularly defy authority or are diagnosed with a conduct disordercommit cold acts of cruelty, hurt animals or do not cry any more; spoil, damage or destroy what others do or makecreate fear in others because they have locked away their own fearsdo not want to please people, cannot trust, have stopped looking for love or approval or truly believe they do not need anyonedo not really know how to 'like' someone; and, definitely do not know how to love someone or are affectionate only if they want something.
