What happens when love doesn’t look like the life you planned? A bold exploration of desire, autonomy, and the courage to live truthfully--‘The first time, I'm afraid: of things falling into place, of knowing deeply that this is right. That all along I've been fighting a tide that with one wave would wipe out ordinary life.’Sheffield. 2019.Evie and her husband meet a woman they've only spoken to online, leading to a night that changes their understanding of love. They meant their vows. So how did they end up here?In Me, You, Them, Evie shares a raw account of life in an open marriage, exploring desire, autonomy, and the emotional complexity of redefining partnership. This memoir delves into the body as a gateway to truth, examining what we want, who we choose, and how we let go of unspoken rules.‘The rules we have lived inside are not real. I’m not sure it’s possible to go back, even if I wanted to.’