In Search of the Good Life

Paul Marcus, PhD, is a supervising and training analyst at the National Psychological Association for Psychoanalysis. He is the author of 'Being for The Other: Emmanuel Levinas, Ethical Living and Psychoanalysis; Autonomy in the Extreme Situation: Bruno Bettelheim, the Nazi Concentration Camps, and the Mass Society' and 'Ancient Religious Wisdom, Spirituality and Psychoanalysis', among other books. Dr Marcus is married with two children and lives in Great Neck, New York.

All of the essays included in this book are animated by the Levinasian assumption that it is the ethical relation to the other person (and, in one case, dog!) that is primary. That is, there is a human tendency in us, an often inhibited, muted or repressed tendency, as psychoanalysts have taught us, to see the needs of others as more important (or at least as important) than our own and therefore be willing to sacrifice for others. Moreover, once this human tendency to be for the Other is consciously embraced and made part of one's way of being in the world the possibility for a greater degree of personal fulfillment and happiness is often enhanced. Thus, the art of living the "good life" involves embracing "goodness" as one's guiding metaphor, an existential orientation in which, says Levinas, "the Other counts more than myself."As social psychologists have repeatedly shown, in social life, paradoxically, it is often the case that "the more you give, the more you get." Being for the Other, in other words, is often self-affirming!'If you are looking for one book about the humanizing philosophy of Levinas that is both intelligible and accessible - that beautifully and profoundly shows its psychological and sociological applicability to everyday life - In Search of the Good Life is it.'- William Helmreich, PhD, Professor of Sociology, Graduate Center, City University of New YorkSelection from the Contents:Levinas, Psychoanalysis and the Art of Living the Good LifeI'm Just Wild About Harry! A Psychoanalyst Reflects on His Relationship With His DogOn Tending to a Dying MotherThe Wisdom of Ecclesiastes and its Significance for PsychoanalysisOn the Psychological Meaning of GossipOn Wanting, Having and Raising ChildrenGetting Help Through PsychotherapyOn the Difficulties of Sustaining an Adult-to-Adult Love RelationshipOn Developing an "Adult" Religious Outlook

• Introduction: Levinas, psychoanalysis, and the art of living the good life , “I'm just wild about Harry!” A psychoanalyst reflects on his relationship with his dog , Victory through vegetables: self-mastery through a vegetarian way of life , Long night's journey into day: on tending to a dying mother , On reading a sacred book: the wisdom of Ecclesiastes and its significance for psychoanalysis , Guard your tongue: on the psychological meaning of gossip , The life and soul of good parenting: on wanting, having, and raising children , On feeling altogether miserable: getting help through psychotherapy , All you need is love: on the difficulties of sustaining an adult-to-adult love relationship , Looking for God in all the right places: on developing an “adult” religious outlook