Your life is good. It's just not good for you.You did everything right. You worked your ass off, made sensible choices and built the kind of life your family can be proud of. Somehow, it still feels wrong. Jon Tan has coached over 100 Asians who reached that same confusing point - corporate overachievers, entrepreneurs, heirs to family businesses and one globally acclaimed clown (yes, really). Different as they are, they all faced the same problems underneath: the cultural rules that helped them succeed were now keeping them trapped in a life that was good, but not good for them. If you're reading this, that's likely you too. Through real coaching stories and exercises, you'll learn:Why your good life makes you unhappy, and what to do about it.How to put yourself first without getting crushed by family guiltHow to tell if your life needs fixing or an overhaulWhen the responsible option becomes the dangerous choiceHow to build a life you love without a clear goal, dream or passion This book is not about becoming un-Asian. It's about what's possible when you point all that excellence at what you actually want.

Your life is good. It's just not good for you.You did everything right. You worked your ass off, made sensible choices and built the kind of life your family can be proud of. Somehow, it still feels wrong. Jon Tan has coached over 100 Asians who reached that same confusing point - corporate overachievers, entrepreneurs, heirs to family businesses and one globally acclaimed clown (yes, really). Different as they are, they all faced the same problems underneath: the cultural rules that helped them succeed were now keeping them trapped in a life that was good, but not good for them. If you're reading this, that's likely you too. Through real coaching stories and exercises, you'll learn:Why your good life makes you unhappy, and what to do about it.How to put yourself first without getting crushed by family guiltHow to tell if your life needs fixing or an overhaulWhen the responsible option becomes the dangerous choiceHow to build a life you love without a clear goal, dream or passion This book is not about becoming un-Asian. It's about what's possible when you point all that excellence at what you actually want.

Your life is good. It's just not good for you.You did everything right. You worked your ass off, made sensible choices and built the kind of life your family can be proud of. Somehow, it still feels wrong. Jon Tan has coached over 100 Asians who reached that same confusing point - corporate overachievers, entrepreneurs, heirs to family businesses and one globally acclaimed clown (yes, really). Different as they are, they all faced the same problems underneath: the cultural rules that helped them succeed were now keeping them trapped in a life that was good, but not good for them. If you're reading this, that's likely you too. Through real coaching stories and exercises, you'll learn:Why your good life makes you unhappy, and what to do about it.How to put yourself first without getting crushed by family guiltHow to tell if your life needs fixing or an overhaulWhen the responsible option becomes the dangerous choiceHow to build a life you love without a clear goal, dream or passion This book is not about becoming un-Asian. It's about what's possible when you point all that excellence at what you actually want.