Bill Eddy – författare
Visar alla böcker från författaren . Handla med fri frakt och snabb leverans.
38 produkter
38 produkter
Häftad, Engelska, 2024
149 kr
Skickas
Our New World of Adult Bullies connects the dots to show how bullies at all levels of society follow the same predictable patterns of behavior.Bullies exist everywhere: families, workplaces, neighborhoods and communities, politics and government, and organizations of all types and sizes. And in a media landscape where conflict, crisis, chaos, and fear reign supreme, every day we see the worst behavior of celebrities, politicians, and other public figures who serve as role models. Winners and losers. Friends and enemies. Heroes and villains. People with high-conflict personalities think almost solely in these extremes. They regularly express unmanaged emotions, routinely blame others, and do harmful things that 90% of people would never do. Bullies share these characteristics, plus a drive to dominate or destroy their victims. But all bullies act in the same highly predictable patterns, regardless of their demographics and situation. By focusing on the ten hidden powers bullies employ—from their unrestrained nature and bully story to manipulating emotions and playing the victim—Bill Eddy unpacks the way bullies rely on primitive emotions and nonverbal behavior. He helps readers spot these behaviors and offers practical actions before they become immobilized by helplessness, blame, and shame. In today’s world, we all may have an adult bully in our lives sooner or later. For anyone who has a bully in their life now, for professionals who counsel victims of bullying, and for anyone who is concerned about the fraying of our culture and society, this book gives effective strategies to prevent bullies from taking over. Eddy’s six-step approach includes useful advice on how to: Recognize the patterns of bully behaviorPull the plug on the bully’s storySet limits with credible threatsImpose serious consequencesCommunicate effectively about bullies to othersStand strong with others against bullies Our New World of Adult Bullies takes a closer look at the dangerous behavior of bullies and how to stop the behavior before it starts.
Häftad, Engelska, 2021
200 kr
Skickas inom 5-8 vardagar
This highly anticipated second edition of Splitting is fully revised and updated, and includes new chapters on abuse, alienation, and false allegations; as well as information about the four types of domestic violence, protective orders, and child custody disputes. Are you divorcing someone who’s making the process as difficult as possible? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? If so, you need this book. For more than ten years, Splitting has served as the ultimate guide for people divorcing a high conflict person, one who often has borderline or narcissistic (or even antisocial) personality disorder. Among other things, it has saved readers thousands of dollars, helped them keep custody of their children, and effectively guided them through a difficult legal and emotional process. Written by a family law attorney and therapist, and the author of Stop Walking on Eggshells, Splitting is an essential legal and psychological guide for anyone divorcing a persuasive blamer: someone who suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and/or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). This second edition includes new information about antisocial personalities; expanded information about domestic violence, child abuse, alienation, and false allegations; how to approach protective orders and deal with child custody disputes; and a new chapter on how to successfully present your case to decision makers. Turn to this guide to help you: ·Predict what your spouse may do or say in court ·Take control of your case with assertiveness and strategic thinking ·Choose a lawyer who understands your case ·Learn how e-mails and social networking can be used against you If you need help navigating a high-conflict divorce from a manipulative spouse, this book includes all of the critical information you need to work through the process of divorce in an emotionally balanced, productive way.
Häftad, Engelska, 2016
180 kr
Skickas inom 5-8 vardagar
Del 4 - Conflict Communication Series
Calming Upset People with EAR
How Statements Showing Empathy, Attention, and Respect Can Quickly Defuse a Conflict
Häftad, Engelska, 2021
147 kr
Skickas
Häftad, Engelska, 2024
170 kr
Skickas inom 5-8 vardagar
People in romantic relationships with narcissists or those suffering from borderline personality disorder (BPD) often feel manipulated, controlled, or even abused. Partners are frequently the focus of violent and irrational rages, and may find themselves "walking on eggshells" to avoid confrontation. BPD expert Randi Kreger-author of Stop Walking on Eggshells-presents essential skills to help partners establish boundaries, communicate effectively, and make the decision to stay or leave in a safe and healthy way.From the author of Stop Walking on Eggshells comes a lifeline for the romantic partners of those with BPD or narcissistic personality disorder. With this guide, you'll learn to set boundaries, defuse arguments, and do what's right for you. Do you often feel manipulated, controlled, or lied to in your relationship? Does your partner exhibit intense, irrational, or violent rage? Are you often the victim of gaslighting or extreme blame? If your partner has borderline personality disorder (BPD) or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), it's important to remember that it is not your fault. Lured in by your partner's initial charm, you might have initially ignored or outright denied the red flags; however, the constant stream of criticism, blame, and gaslighting has left you questioning your own reality. So, how can you begin to set boundaries and make self-preservation a priority? BPD and NPD expert Randi Kreger provides targeted resources to help you build the confidence you need to navigate your relationship safely and effectively. Packed with in-depth information and proven-effective skills, this no-nonsense guide will help you evaluate your relationship, discover what you truly want and need, and gain the courage needed to make healthy decisions-and act on them. If you decide to stay with your partner, you'll be equipped with tools to improve the relationship; if you determine you want to leave and start a new life, this book will light your path to freedom. As much as it might feel like it, you are not stuck in your current relationship. There is a way forward, and no matter how you ultimately choose to proceed, you'll be guided wisely and safely toward a satisfying relationship-and the better, more peaceful life you deserve
Häftad, Engelska, 2014
134 kr
Skickas
Häftad, Engelska, 2018
260 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
E-bok
Engelska, 2024124 kr
Läs direkt efter köp
Our New World of Adult Bullies connects the dots to show how bullies at all levels of society follow the same predictable patterns of behavior.Bullies exist everywhere: families, workplaces, neighborhoods and communities, politics and government, and organizations of all types and sizes. And in a media landscape where conflict, crisis, chaos, and fear reign supreme, every day we see the worst behavior of celebrities, politicians, and other public figures who serve as role models. Winners and losers. Friends and enemies. Heroes and villains. People with high-conflict personalities think almost solely in these extremes. They regularly express unmanaged emotions, routinely blame others, and do harmful things that 90% of people would never do. Bullies share these characteristics, plus a drive to dominate or destroy their victims. But all bullies act in the same highly predictable patterns, regardless of their demographics and situation. By focusing on the ten hidden powers bullies employ—from their unrestrained nature and bully story to manipulating emotions and playing the victim—Bill Eddy unpacks the way bullies rely on primitive emotions and nonverbal behavior. He helps readers spot these behaviors and offers practical actions before they become immobilized by helplessness, blame, and shame. In today’s world, we all may have an adult bully in our lives sooner or later. For anyone who has a bully in their life now, for professionals who counsel victims of bullying, and for anyone who is concerned about the fraying of our culture and society, this book gives effective strategies to prevent bullies from taking over. Eddy’s six-step approach includes useful advice on how to: Recognize the patterns of bully behavior Pull the plug on the bully’s story Set limits with credible threats Impose serious consequences Communicate effectively about bullies to others Stand strong with others against bullies Our New World of Adult Bullies takes a closer look at the dangerous behavior of bullies and how to stop the behavior before it starts.
Inbunden, Engelska, 2019
297 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
E-bok
Engelska, 2018194 kr
Läs direkt efter köp
New Ways for Families Professional Guidebook
For Therapists, Lawyers, Judicial Officers and Mediators
Häftad, Engelska, 2010
313 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Häftad, Engelska, 2016
219 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Häftad, Engelska, 2017
246 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Häftad, Engelska, 2012
193 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Häftad, Engelska, 2014
234 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Häftad, Engelska, 2015
179 kr
Skickas inom 5-8 vardagar
Häftad, Engelska, 2015
261 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Del 7 - New Ways
New Ways for Life Instructor's Guide
Life Skills for Young People
Häftad, Engelska, 2020
204 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Häftad, Engelska, 2020
179 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
Del 3 - BIFF Conflict Communication Series
BIFF for CoParent Communication
Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts
Häftad, Engelska, 2020
167 kr
Skickas
E-bok
Engelska, 2020233 kr
Läs direkt efter köp
In this tenth anniversary edition of Don't Alienate the Kids! attorney, mediator, and therapist Bill Eddy shows readers how to protect children from the harm of alienation and high-conflict divorce, boosting their resilience by teaching them to think flexibly, manage their emotions, and moderate their behaviors.We all know breakups can get ugly. But sometimes they can get downright vicious, with badmouthing, brainwashing, and allegations of alienation, child abuse and domestic violence, all leading to nasty custody battles. No one can solve this problem alone. That's because the wall of alienation between parent and child is built by: the family's own patterns of conflict; family court professionals who get emotionally "e;hooked"e;; society's rapidly escalating culture of blame. But there's hope! Readers can help kids learn flexible thinking, emotion regulation, effective behaviors, and healthy relationships. Everyone involved must work together. This book shows how parents, family members, friends, counselors, lawyers, parenting coordinators, divorce coaches, and family court judges can become part of the solution, giving children a foundation of resilience that will last a lifetime.
Häftad, Engelska, 2021
337 kr
Skickas inom 5-8 vardagar
Del 5 - Conflict Communication
BIFF for Lawyers and Law Offices
Your Guide to Respectful Written Communication with Clients, Opposing Counsel and Others
Häftad, Engelska, 2024
179 kr
Skickas inom 5-8 vardagar
194 kr
Läs direkt efter köp
This book provides a simple, proven method to help lawyers ethically respond to hostile communications, correct misinformation by others, and initiate productive correspondence. This method can be used by all law office personnel including paralegals, administrative assistants, receptionists, and others. "BIFF for Lawyers and Law Offices" provides 30 sample responses to common situations involving hostile or misinformed emails, text messages, and other forms of communication. This method will help lawyers'' communication be brief, informative, friendly, and firm (BIFF).The BIFF method can also be taught to clients to help them write friendly and concise responses in their legal cases, which saves lawyers time and reduces the escalation of unnecessary conflicts in their cases. This book explains how to coach office staff, clients, and clients'' family members to use the BIFF method with ten easy key questions to ask when reviewing their correspondence. While this method is designed primarily for written communication, this approach can also be used to make verbal conversations more efficient and respectful. Each sample scenario in the book provides a hostile correspondence received by a lawyer and/or staff member, followed by two possible responses: one that is BIFF-approved and one that is not. The book is divided into five sections: 1. Learning the BIFF Method2. Correspondence with Clients3. Correspondence with Colleagues4. Correspondence with Staff and Between Staff5. Coaching Staff and Clients in the BIFF Method
Häftad, Engelska, 2025
269 kr
Skickas inom 3-6 vardagar
E-bok
Engelska, 2025194 kr
Läs direkt efter köp
In a world filled with conflict, manipulation, and boundary-pushing behavior, SLIC Solutions for Conflict offers a calm and practical guide for addressing high-conflict behavior. Drawing on decades of experience with high-conflict personalities, Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., and Ekaterina Ricci, MDR, MLS, present the 2 -step SLIC Solutions method: Setting Limits and Imposing Consequences. This approach helps you respond with confidence replacing passive tolerance or reactive aggression with firm, respectful boundaries. Whether you're dealing with narcissists, workplace bullies, difficult relatives, or escalating community tensions, SLIC Solutions equips you with the tools to be assertive without being aggressive, to protect your peace, and to strengthen the social fabric around you. With calm authority, it empowers readers to become more confident limit-setters helping make families, organizations, and communities safer and more respectful places for all. You'll learn five key questions to help ensure your consequences are realistic and effective. With real-world examples from families, workplaces, courtrooms, and communities, this book provides actionable strategies to regain control in even the most challenging situations. SLIC Solutions is the fourth core method in the internationally respected CARS Method of conflict resolution alongside Connecting (EAR Statements ), Analyzing options, and Responding (BIFF Response ). With clarity and compassion, this book shows how to communicate boundaries, follow through, and preserve relationships without falling into manipulation traps. SLIC Solutions is often the most important skill. High conflict people tend to be the people who can't stop themselves from offensive or harmful behavior, so others need to stop them. This technique can be used with anyone in your life and can be learned at almost any age. Assert without aggression. Protect your peace. Strengthen your community.
Häftad, Engelska, 2026
246 kr
Kommande
Häftad, Engelska, 2027
233 kr
Kommande
E-bok
Engelska, 2021679 kr
Läs direkt efter köp
High conflict mediation requires a paradigm shift from traditional mediation-high conflict experts Bill Eddy and Michael Lomax show you how. Over the past twelve years, the authors have been developing and practicing tips for managing high conflict clients in mediation, which is now a fully developed new method called New Ways for Mediation Mediating High Conflict Disputes gives all of the little tips which any mediator can use, as well as the step-by-step structure of the New Ways for Mediation method for those who want to have better control of the process in high conflict cases-or any cases. This book is divided into three parts: Part 1 provides a thorough explanation of the thinking and behavior of parties with high conflict personalities, with an emphasis on what does not work and should be avoided. Part 2 provides a detailed description of the New Ways for Mediation method, including several paradigm shifts in each step of the process for greater success. Its similarities and differences with interest-based negotiations and transformative mediation methods are explained. Part 3 includes numerous examples describing cases with special issues in several settings, including family, workplace, and disputes involving government agencies.
E-bok
Engelska, 2021187 kr
Läs direkt efter köp
The level of stress and conflict in today's world is higher than seen in decades. We all can use tools for managing the emotions this has caused. At the same time, there also appear to be more "e;high conflict"e; people who are preoccupied with blaming others and verbally venting or attacking those around them. Yet, these upset emotions and conflicts can often be calmed immediately through the use of a simple EAR Statement(TM), a method developed and refined by Bill Eddy over the past fifteen years and taught to hundreds of thousands of professionals and individuals. Following on the success of his widely-known BIFF Response method and books for written communication, this new book on EAR Statements for verbal communication will come in handy in all kinds of upset situations: family conflicts, workplace disputes, neighbor controversies, and any other setting. A simple statement communicating empathy, attention and/or respect to an angry, sad, mentally ill or any upset person at any time can work wonders in minutes. Yet it's not as easy as it looks. It takes practice and this book gives over twenty examples of applying this method in families, communities, customer relations, workplace, political discussions, business, police encounters, racial conflicts, schools, mental health settings, and others. Empathy, attention and respect are what all people are looking for, especially when upset or in a conflict. This book will give you the details of how to calm upset people with EAR every day.