Elisabeth Badinter – författare

Examining changing role models for masculine identity--from cowboy in the 1950s to Terminator in the 1990s, from flesh-and-blood man to machine--this book suggests that men need new role models and that sufficient room needs to be left for the expression of male vulnerability, a psychic space that would accept attitudes and behaviors traditionally labeled as "feminine." This new model, Badinter argues, may reduce the profound effects of homophobia and misogyny.

In this provocative new book, France’s leading feminist theorist launches a broadside against the way in which feminism has evolved since the 1990s. After the victories of the previous decades, during which women had made some real advances in social and political life, a new sensibility began to emerge in the 1990s which led to a reversal in the hierarchy of values. The cult of victimhood has become widespread and has affected feminism. Women are viewed as defenceless and oppressed, social violence and sexual violence are treated as the same and a finger is pointed at the guilty one: man in all his guises. But by conflating real and false victims, feminism runs the risk of misunderstanding the battles that need to be waged and of losing all credibility with the younger generation, which doesn’t see things see things this way. Preoccupied by putting men on trial, the feminism of the last few years has reactivated old stereotypes and left behind the very battles that have long been its raison d’être – this, argues Badinter, is a dead end.A huge bestseller in France, this book will be essential reading for anyone interested in the changing relations between the sexes and our ways of thinking about sex and gender today.

In this provocative new book, France’s leading feminist theorist launches a broadside against the way in which feminism has evolved since the 1990s. After the victories of the previous decades, during which women had made some real advances in social and political life, a new sensibility began to emerge in the 1990s which led to a reversal in the hierarchy of values. The cult of victimhood has become widespread and has affected feminism. Women are viewed as defenceless and oppressed, social violence and sexual violence are treated as the same and a finger is pointed at the guilty one: man in all his guises. But by conflating real and false victims, feminism runs the risk of misunderstanding the battles that need to be waged and of losing all credibility with the younger generation, which doesn’t see things see things this way. Preoccupied by putting men on trial, the feminism of the last few years has reactivated old stereotypes and left behind the very battles that have long been its raison d’être – this, argues Badinter, is a dead end.A huge bestseller in France, this book will be essential reading for anyone interested in the changing relations between the sexes and our ways of thinking about sex and gender today.

Aujourd''hui, l''égalité réelle entre hommes et femmes met un terme au modèle millénaire de la complémentarité, complémentarité heureuse (l''homme avec la femme) ou conflictuelle (l''homme contre la femme). Un nouveau modèle s''élabore sous nos yeux : la ressemblance des sexes. Plus qu''une révolution des mœurs, Elisabeth Badinter y voit une véritable mutation et la mise en question de notre identité à laquelle beaucoup ne sont pas encore prêts.

« Les stéréotypes d’antan, pudiquement appelés " nos repères ", nous enfermaient mais nous rassuraient. Aujourd’hui, leur éclatement en trouble plus d’un. Bien des hommes y voient la raison de la chute de leur empire et le font payer aux femmes. Nombre d’entre elles sont tentées de répliquer par l’instauration d’un nouvel ordre moral qui suppose le rétablissement des frontières. C’est le piège où ne pas tomber sous peine d’y perdre notre liberté, de freiner la marche vers l’égalité et de renouer avec le séparatisme. Cette tentation est celle du discours dominant qui se fait entendre depuis dix ou quinze ans. Contrairement à ses espérances, il est peu probable qu’il fasse progresser la condition des femmes. Il est même à craindre que leurs relations avec les hommes se détériorent. C’est ce qu’on appelle faire fausse route. » Elisabeth Badinter Elisabeth Badinter est notamment l’auteur de L’Amour en plus, de L’un est l’autre et de XY, De l’identité masculine.