Through meaningful examples, Betty Carter's Love Honor and Negotiate demonstrates how to tailor marriages to fit the pressures of the real world.Family therapist Betty Carter's cutting-edge, common-sense approach to helping marriages flourish is based on the premise that couples today want to be equals, but the realities of the workplace force them into traditional roles, especially after they have children.

Drawing on the latest research and discussions with prominent psychologists, Peters explains our deep-seated resistance to mothering (and fathering) in new ways. With portraits of a dozen real families,corporate and blue collar, religious and secular, step- and single parents, urban and suburban,Peters illustrates the strategies that make this new family life succeed.

The next generation of women want a career and a life, but they don't know how to get both. Having watched the boomer generation, they know they don't want their options: sacrificing family life for high-powered careers or consigning themselves to the "mommy track." Not Your Mother's Life shows how today's young women are uniquely poised to reach out and take- or create- the work/life balance that proved so elusive for the boomers. The key, Peters argues, is for women to use their newfound economic power to choose their lives instead of letting their lives choose them. Full of real-life examples of women who are doing it their own way, Not Your Mother's Life offers this new generation a vision of how to remake the work world according to their own needs- ultimately benefiting women and men.

Through meaningful examples, Betty Carter's Love Honor and Negotiate demonstrates how to tailor marriages to fit the pressures of the real world.Family therapist Betty Carter's cutting-edge, common-sense approach to helping marriages flourish is based on the premise that couples today want to be equals, but the realities of the workplace force them into traditional roles, especially after they have children.

Drawing on the latest research and discussions with prominent psychologists, Peters explains our deep-seated resistance to mothering (and fathering) in new ways. With portraits of a dozen real families,corporate and blue collar, religious and secular, step- and single parents, urban and suburban,Peters illustrates the strategies that make this new family life succeed.

The next generation of women want a career and a life, but they don't know how to get both. Having watched the boomer generation, they know they don't want their options: sacrificing family life for high-powered careers or consigning themselves to the "mommy track." Not Your Mother's Life shows how today's young women are uniquely poised to reach out and take- or create- the work/life balance that proved so elusive for the boomers. The key, Peters argues, is for women to use their newfound economic power to choose their lives instead of letting their lives choose them. Full of real-life examples of women who are doing it their own way, Not Your Mother's Life offers this new generation a vision of how to remake the work world according to their own needs- ultimately benefiting women and men.