Martha Stout – Författare

WHO IS THE DEVIL YOU KNOW? Is it your lying, cheating ex-husband?Your sadistic high school gym teacher?Your boss who loves to humiliate people in meetings?The colleague who stole your idea and passed it off as her own?In the pages of The Sociopath Next Door, you will realize that your ex was not just misunderstood. He's a sociopath. And your boss, teacher, and colleague? They may be sociopaths too.We are accustomed to think of sociopaths as violent criminals, but in The Sociopath Next Door, Harvard psychologist Martha Stout reveals that a shocking 4 percent of ordinary people- 1 in 25 - has an often undetected mental disorder, the chief symptom of which is that that person possesses no conscience. He or she has no ability whatsoever to feel shame, guilt, or remorse. One in 25 everyday people, therefore, is secretly a sociopath. They could be your colleague, your neighbour, even family. And they can do literally anything at all and feel absolutely no guilt.How do we recognize the remorseless? One of their chief characteristics is a kind of glow or charisma that makes sociopaths more charming or interesting than the other people around them. They're more spontaneous, more intense, more complex, or even sexier than everyone else, making them tricky to identify and leaving us easily seduced. Fundamentally, sociopaths are different because they cannot love. Sociopaths learn early on to show sham emotion, but underneath they are indifferent to others' suffering. They live to dominate and thrill to win.The fact is, we all almost certainly know at least one or more sociopaths already. Part of the urgency in reading The Sociopath Next Door is the moment when we suddenly recognize that someone we know - someone we worked for, or were involved with, or voted for - is a sociopath. But what do we do with that knowledge? To arm us against the sociopath, Dr Stout teaches us to question authority, suspect flattery, and beware the pity play. Above all, she writes, when a sociopath is beckoning, do not join the game.It is the ruthless versus the rest of us, and The Sociopath Next Door will show you how to recognize and defeat the devil you know.

From Dr. Martha Stout's influential work The Sociopath Next Door, we learned how to identify a sociopath. Now she tells us what to actually do about it.While the best way to deal with a sociopath is to avoid them entirely, sometimes circumstance doesn't allow for that. What happens when the time comes to defend yourself against your own child, a boss, or ruthless ex-spouse? Inspired by the many chilling and often heartbreaking emails and letters she has received over the years, from her work with the victims of sociopathy, Dr. Martha Stout uncovers the psychology behind the sociopath's methods and provides concrete guidelines to help navigate these dangerous interactions.Organized around categories such as destructive narcissism, violent sociopaths, sociopathic coworkers, and the sociopath in your family, Outsmarting the Sociopath Next Door contains detailed explanation and commentary on how best to react in these situations to keep the sociopath at bay. Uniting these categories is a discussion of changing psychological theories of personality and sociopathy and the enduring triumph of conscience over those who operate without empathy or concern for others. By understanding the person you're dealing with and changing the rules of the game, you'll be able to gain the upper hand and escape the sociopath's influence.Whether you're fighting a custody battle against a sociopathic ex or being gaslighted by a boss or coworker, you'll find hope and help within these pages. With this guide to disarming the conscienceless, Dr. Stout aims to give readers the tools to protect themselves while conducting a broader examination of human behavior and conceptions of normality.

In Der Soziopath von nebenan werden keine bestimmten Personen beschrieben. Eine der Grundvoraussetzungen der Psychotherapie ist Vertraulichkeit. Gemäß üblicher Praxis habe ich sorgfältig die Privatsphäre aller tatsächlich existierenden Personen geschützt. Alle Namen sind fiktiv, und alle anderen erkennbaren Persönli- keitsmerkmale sind verändert worden. Einige der Personen, die in diesem Buch vorkommen, haben bereitwillig zugestimmt, anonym beschrieben zu werden; jedoch werden in keinem Fall Informat- nen gegeben, die Rückschlüsse auf die Identität der jeweiligen Person zulassen würden. Die Geschichte im Kapitel „Der Tag des Murmeltiers“ ist erfunden. Alle anderen beschriebenen Personen, Ereignisse und Gespräche entstammen meinen 25 Jahren psychologischer Praxis. Um absolute Vertraulichkeit zu wahren, sind allerdings die auf diesen Seiten geschilderten Personen und Umstände Konglo- rate; das heißt, dass jeder Fall mehrere Individuen repräsentiert, deren Eigenschaften und Erlebnisse zurVeranschaulichung ad- tiert wurden. Die Einzelheiten sind sorgfältig verändert worden, bevor ich sie zu beispielhaften Persönlichkeiten kombiniert habe. Jede Ähnlichkeit zwischen einer solchen fiktiven und einer t- sächlich existierenden Person wäre rein zufällig. — xiii — EINFÜHRUNG ein gedankenspiel Die Seelen sind noch unterschiedlicher als die Gesichter.