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You're not selfish. You're exhausted.It's time to stop the "e;Resentful Yes"e; and start loving from a place of overflow.If you've ever smiled and said "e;I'd love to!"e; while your stomach screamed "e;Absolutely not,"e; you're not alone. You may be operating from what this book calls the Appeasement Reflex, a nervous system response that equates safety with keeping everyone happy.For too long, Christians have been handed a script that equates holiness with having no needs. We're taught that to be a "e;good Christian"e; means being endlessly available and never inconvenient. We confuse availability with love and niceness with kindness.The result?You become the reliable one. The shock absorber for everyone else's anxiety. The safety net for every crisis. Yet inside, you feel depleted, resentful, and invisible in your own life.Here's the hard truth:A relationship built on your exhaustion isn't love. It's a transaction. And you cannot pour from an empty cup. God never asked you to try.In Healthy Boundaries Reset, you'll discover that setting limits isn't an act of war. It's an act of stewardship. Combining biblical wisdom with practical psychology, this guide helps you step out of survival mode and into a life where your "e;Yes"e; is joyful and your "e;No"e; is respected.Inside, you'll learn how to:• Dismantle the "e;Idol of Niceness"e; and replace trauma-driven fawning with fierce, biblical kindness• Master the "e;Holy Pause"e; so your brain can catch up before your mouth says yes• Navigate the "e;Guilt Hangover"e; and calm the physical spiral that follows boundary-setting• Handle the "e;Change Back"e; maneuver when people pressure you to return to the old you• Practice "e;Grace Without Proximity"e; by forgiving without re-entering unsafe dynamics• Use the Script Vault; word-for-word responses for guilt trips, silent treatments, and urgent "e;emergencies."e;Who Needs This Reset?The ministry leader who feels guilty turning off their phone.The spouse walking on eggshells to avoid an explosion.The parent of an adult child who refuses to launch.The friend who is always the listener and never the heard.The adult child who still feels twelve when their parents call.This isn't just self-help. It's soul care.Walk through the Gospels and watch how Jesus set boundaries. He slept during the storm. He walked away from needy crowds. He delayed His arrival to Lazarus. He loved deeply without surrendering His calling.We often fear boundaries will push people away. The opposite is true. Boundaries preserve relationships. They prevent the resentment that silently kills connection. When you install a gate, you protect the garden of your heart so you can bear real fruit.You don't have to choose between being loving and being healthy. You can be both.If you are drowning in family expectations, burned out at church, or tired of disappearing inside other people's needs, this book is your permission to breathe again.Stop building walls.Start installing a gate.