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INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING AUTHORS OF SEX TALKS Building on their incredible successes from New York Times bestselling book Sex Talks, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander have created a companion that will make talking about sex with your partner easier than ever. Welcome to the Sex Talks card deck! These cards will help you and your partner have better sex, simply by talking about it openly! You’ll discover what you both need to feel open to intimacy, how to bring back that new relationship spark, and what makes sex amazing for each of you—and you’ll have lots of fun and laughter along the way. Before you know it, you’re both going to be feeling more playful, joyful, and in love. And ready to race into the bedroom! We’ve experienced the power of these conversations in our own relationship, and we’re so excited for you to get started. The cards are organized into five categories: 1. Acknowledgement: a.k.a. “Sex is a thing, and we have it.” The cards in this section will help you get comfortable talking about sex openly, and will make it a fun topic of conversation. 2. Connection: a.k.a. “What do we need to feel connected to each other?” With these cards, you’ll develop a deeper understanding of how to create and sustain emotional intimacy. Because the more connected you feel emotionally, the easier physical intimacy will feel. 3. Desire: a.k.a. “What do we each need to get turned on?” Answering these questions will help you and your partner know what you each need to feel excitement and anticipation around sex. 4. Pleasure: a.k.a. “What do we each need to feel good?” The questions in this section will reveal what each of you needs to have your “best ever” sexual experiences. 5. Exploration: a.k.a. “What should we try next?” These cards will inspire you to keep it spicy for years to come!

The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreams—just by talking about it!—from sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin. INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER AARP.org Books to Improve Your Love LifeWhy is it so hard to talk about sex, even with the person who regularly sees you naked? You know communication is important in a relationship, but you just don’t know how to get started with such a sensitive subject. Maybe you’ve never talked about sex at all, and the thought of it makes your palms sweat. Or you’re feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind. Maybe you’re too scared to be honest about what you really want. Or you have no freaking clue what you want, so you’re not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful! Sex Talks “helps us overcome the myths that drag us down” (John Gottman, New York Times bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work). Together, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesn’t even involve taking off your clothes. Sex Talks covers the five essential conversations every couple needs to have: 1. Acknowledgement: a.k.a. “Sex is a thing, and we have it.” 2. Connection: a.k.a. “What do we need to feel connected to each other?” 3. Desire: a.k.a. “What do we each need to get turned on?” 4. Pleasure: a.k.a. “What do we each need to feel good?” 5. Exploration: a.k.a. “What should we try next?” With gripping storytelling and an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couples’ closed bedroom doors, Vanessa and Xander share their successful advice that has already helped thousands of clients. Sex Talks “redefines what it means to have great sex” (Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone), providing the sex education you wish you’d had, plus the tried-and-tested tools you need to create the sex life of your wildest dreams.

The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreams—just by talking about it!—from sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin. INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER AARP.org Books to Improve Your Love LifeWhy is it so hard to talk about sex, even with the person who regularly sees you naked? You know communication is important in a relationship, but you just don’t know how to get started with such a sensitive subject. Maybe you’ve never talked about sex at all, and the thought of it makes your palms sweat. Or you’re feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind. Maybe you’re too scared to be honest about what you really want. Or you have no freaking clue what you want, so you’re not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful! Sex Talks “helps us overcome the myths that drag us down” (John Gottman, New York Times bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work). Together, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesn’t even involve taking off your clothes. Sex Talks covers the five essential conversations every couple needs to have: 1. Acknowledgement: a.k.a. “Sex is a thing, and we have it.” 2. Connection: a.k.a. “What do we need to feel connected to each other?” 3. Desire: a.k.a. “What do we each need to get turned on?” 4. Pleasure: a.k.a. “What do we each need to feel good?” 5. Exploration: a.k.a. “What should we try next?” With gripping storytelling and an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couples’ closed bedroom doors, Vanessa and Xander share their successful advice that has already helped thousands of clients. Sex Talks “redefines what it means to have great sex” (Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone), providing the sex education you wish you’d had, plus the tried-and-tested tools you need to create the sex life of your wildest dreams.