FRANCES K. GROSSMAN, Ph.D., is a professor in the Department of Psychology at Boston University.Alexandra B. Cook, Ph.D., is the director of children's services at the Trauma Center, Arbour Health Systems. Selin S. Kepkep, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist in private practice. Karestan C. Koenen, Ph.D., is a psychology fellow at the Payne Whitney Clinic of New York Hospital.Cook, Kepkep, and Koenen studied under Frances Grossman at Boston University's doctoral program in clinical psychology. ALEXANDRA B. COOK, Ph.D., is the director of children's services at The Trauma Center, Arbour Health Systems. SELIN S. KEPKEP, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist in private practice. KARESTAN C. KOENEN, Ph.D., is a psychology fellow at the Payne Whitney Clinic of New York Hospital. Cook, Kepkep, and Koenen studied under Frances Grossman at Boston University's doctoral program in clinical psychology.

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• Preface viiPart I: Setting the Stage1 Resiliency 32 The Women’s Stories 23Part II: Safe Havens, Important Relationships3 School and Work 494 Intimate Relationships 695 Relationships with Children 796 Relationships Outside the Family 95Part III: Processes and Strategies for Developing Resiliency7 The Role of Psychotherapy 1138 The Management of Feelings 1379 The Importance of Self-Care 17110 Making Sense of the Abuse 189Part IV: A Lifelong Process11 Revisiting the Participants 215Appendix: Research Methodology 239References 243About the Authors 249Index 253