Choosing Civility

Rediscover the Lost Art of Civility and Compassion in a Fast-Paced World

In today''s hurried lives filled with emails, cellphones, and multi-tasking, thoughtful behavior and common decency often seem in short supply. In Choosing Civility, P. M. Forni identifies the twenty-five essential rules for connecting effectively and happily with others. With clear, witty, and well-mannered language, Forni covers topics including:



Thinking Twice Before Asking Favors

Giving Constructive Criticism

Refraining from Idle Complaints

Respecting Others'' Opinions

Avoiding Shifting Responsibility and Blame

Caring for Your Guests

Accepting and Giving Praise



Forni provides practical examples of how to put each rule into practice, making life—and the lives of others—more enjoyable, companionable, and rewarding. Choosing Civility is a simple, perfectly measured, and quietly magical handbook on the lost art of civility and compassion.

"An insightful meditation on how changing the way we think can improve our daily lives. ... A deft exploration that urges us to think before speaking." —Kirkus, Starred Review