Writing the Talking Cure

Jeffrey Berman is Distinguished Teaching Professor of English at the University at Albany, State University of New York. His previous books include Writing Widowhood: The Landscapes of Bereavement; Death in the Classroom: Writing about Love and Loss; and Dying to Teach: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Learning, all published by SUNY Press.

"As a psychiatrist who has benefitted enormously not only from Yalom's writings but also from his mentorship, I admire Berman's relationship to his subject. They both write lucidly and imaginatively, inviting the reader to accompany them on a personal journey that is intriguing but intellectually rigorous. Reading this book helps me to better understand Yalom's dual roles—as brilliant psychotherapist/teacher and compelling novelist. Berman's book-by-book examination of Yalom's work illustrates how good therapy involves facing reality, and good fiction involves making stories come alive by resonating with the hard truths of life. He is the perfect guide to Yalom, capturing his wisdom and creativity with respect and clarity." — David Spiegel, author of Living Beyond Limits: New Hope and Help for Facing Life-Threatening Illness"This is a convincing celebration of and commentary on one of the most prominent psychotherapists of the last century. For anyone interested in the popularization of an idiosyncratic form of existential psychotherapy for individuals and groups, this will be an important book." — Murray Schwartz, Emerson College"In this richly textured book, Berman takes us backstage in a warm and skillful exploration of Irvin Yalom's unmatched contributions as a psychotherapist, author, and educator. We are provided a transparent view of how human healing emerges from our talking, writing, and reading. Berman reminds us eloquently that psychotherapy is, at its essence, the process of human connection and the joint attribution of meaning to experience." — Molyn Leszcz, The University of Toronto

• AcknowledgmentsIntroduction: Existence Pain 1. The Theory and Practice of Group Psychotherapy : The Art of Self-Disclosure 2. Every Day Gets a Little Closer : A Dual Perspective of Therapy 3. Existential Psychotherapy : Living with Death Anxiety 4. Inpatient Group Psychotherapy : Educating Observers and the Observed 5. Love’s Executioner : Living with Existence Pain 6. When Nietzsche Wept : Gratitude and Its Discontents 7. Lying on the Couch : The Threat of Sexual Boundary Violations 8. Momma and the Meaning of Life : The "Smoldering Inner Compost Heap" of Creativity 9. The Gift of Therapy : The Hazards and Privileges of Being a Therapist 10. The Schopenhauer Cure : Searching for an Antidote 11. Staring at the Sun : Novel Healing 12. The Spinoza Problem : "A Sedative for My Passions" 13. Creatures of a Day : Anticipating Endings Conclusion : Yalom’s Cure and Becoming Myself Works CitedIndex