I received a simple hey in Messenger, and I ignored it for a few days, thinking, who the fuck is this? I also had a friend request but had not accepted it either. So I asked, Do I know you? And he replied that he was looking for a friend to chat with. I noticed that his spelling of simple English words was bad (first bad sign).He wanted someone he could trust and chat with. I asked how he came across me, and he claimed he saw my pretty face. He told me he googled my name. He did.I did and did not realize it had all the stuff about my birth name, my married names, when I was saved by a fireman, and so on. I googled my name, and there were five pages with my name associated on all of them.