There is a decision you have already made.  You have the plan, the numbers, the qualifications, the lease you have read twice. What you do not have is the sentence, said out loud, by somebody else, that would make it official. So you ask. You ask your father. You ask a friend who knows about these things. You ask a consultant you pay four hundred dollars an hour. You ask, and you keep asking, and eleven months go by.  The Woman Who Needs No Permission starts from a claim the rest of this category avoids. The reason you keep asking is not low self-esteem, and it is not a lack of confidence. Asking is insurance. It puts a second person on the record, so that if it fails you were advised rather than reckless. It protects you from being the only person who wanted it, which is the most exposed position a person can stand in. And it lets you keep the identity you already have, because the woman who checks first is careful and well liked, and the woman who decides alone has no script yet.  Then it sends you the bill, which is the months you needed.  Through six women in six cities, Tessa, Aisha, Renata, Grace, Mira and Jo, this book builds ten tools, each used exactly once. Inside, you'll learn:  • The Countersign Map: three columns that show you whose signature you believe a decision requires, and what you think it is protecting you from• The Warrant Check: two questions that sort the person you are asking into authority, which can stop you, or opinion, which can only react • The Fallout Sheet: a priced list of what actually happens if it fails, usually far shorter than the fear• The Draft Folder and the One-Draft Rule: how to catch the rehearsal and cap it• The Information Test, the Explanation Budget, the Undo Button, and the Non-Explanation  Chapter 7 is the one this book exists for. Grace co-owns a print studio in Montreal with a brother whose signature is required on the refinancing, and whose name has been on the account since 2011. It is written for women whose pen is not their own, it names the professional to see and the point at which this book stops, and it does not pretend that everything is a mindset problem. Appendix C is the field guide the rest of the category does not have: five real approval structures, what sits inside each one, and the document to ask for.  What replaces the permission slip is a record. One page per decision, four lines, written before and kept after: what I decided, what I knew at the time, what I accepted as risk, and what I will do if it fails. A permit is granted by somebody else and can be withdrawn by somebody else. A record is evidence, and evidence survives being wrong.  There is also the part most books leave out. Some signatures are real. A co-signer can decline, a licence holder can refuse, a court order can arrive in the post. This book separates the signatures that can actually stop you from the opinions that can only react, and then does something unusual with the difference: it tells you which one you are dealing with, and what to do on Monday either way.  Nobody is coming to countersign. That is not bad news.

There is a decision you have already made.  You have the plan, the numbers, the qualifications, the lease you have read twice. What you do not have is the sentence, said out loud, by somebody else, that would make it official. So you ask. You ask your father. You ask a friend who knows about these things. You ask a consultant you pay four hundred dollars an hour. You ask, and you keep asking, and eleven months go by.  The Woman Who Needs No Permission starts from a claim the rest of this category avoids. The reason you keep asking is not low self-esteem, and it is not a lack of confidence. Asking is insurance. It puts a second person on the record, so that if it fails you were advised rather than reckless. It protects you from being the only person who wanted it, which is the most exposed position a person can stand in. And it lets you keep the identity you already have, because the woman who checks first is careful and well liked, and the woman who decides alone has no script yet.  Then it sends you the bill, which is the months you needed.  Through six women in six cities, Tessa, Aisha, Renata, Grace, Mira and Jo, this book builds ten tools, each used exactly once. Inside, you'll learn:  • The Countersign Map: three columns that show you whose signature you believe a decision requires, and what you think it is protecting you from• The Warrant Check: two questions that sort the person you are asking into authority, which can stop you, or opinion, which can only react • The Fallout Sheet: a priced list of what actually happens if it fails, usually far shorter than the fear• The Draft Folder and the One-Draft Rule: how to catch the rehearsal and cap it• The Information Test, the Explanation Budget, the Undo Button, and the Non-Explanation  Chapter 7 is the one this book exists for. Grace co-owns a print studio in Montreal with a brother whose signature is required on the refinancing, and whose name has been on the account since 2011. It is written for women whose pen is not their own, it names the professional to see and the point at which this book stops, and it does not pretend that everything is a mindset problem. Appendix C is the field guide the rest of the category does not have: five real approval structures, what sits inside each one, and the document to ask for.  What replaces the permission slip is a record. One page per decision, four lines, written before and kept after: what I decided, what I knew at the time, what I accepted as risk, and what I will do if it fails. A permit is granted by somebody else and can be withdrawn by somebody else. A record is evidence, and evidence survives being wrong.  There is also the part most books leave out. Some signatures are real. A co-signer can decline, a licence holder can refuse, a court order can arrive in the post. This book separates the signatures that can actually stop you from the opinions that can only react, and then does something unusual with the difference: it tells you which one you are dealing with, and what to do on Monday either way.  Nobody is coming to countersign. That is not bad news.

There is a decision you have already made.  You have the plan, the numbers, the qualifications, the lease you have read twice. What you do not have is the sentence, said out loud, by somebody else, that would make it official. So you ask. You ask your father. You ask a friend who knows about these things. You ask a consultant you pay four hundred dollars an hour. You ask, and you keep asking, and eleven months go by.  The Woman Who Needs No Permission starts from a claim the rest of this category avoids. The reason you keep asking is not low self-esteem, and it is not a lack of confidence. Asking is insurance. It puts a second person on the record, so that if it fails you were advised rather than reckless. It protects you from being the only person who wanted it, which is the most exposed position a person can stand in. And it lets you keep the identity you already have, because the woman who checks first is careful and well liked, and the woman who decides alone has no script yet.  Then it sends you the bill, which is the months you needed.  Through six women in six cities, Tessa, Aisha, Renata, Grace, Mira and Jo, this book builds ten tools, each used exactly once. Inside, you'll learn:  • The Countersign Map: three columns that show you whose signature you believe a decision requires, and what you think it is protecting you from• The Warrant Check: two questions that sort the person you are asking into authority, which can stop you, or opinion, which can only react • The Fallout Sheet: a priced list of what actually happens if it fails, usually far shorter than the fear• The Draft Folder and the One-Draft Rule: how to catch the rehearsal and cap it• The Information Test, the Explanation Budget, the Undo Button, and the Non-Explanation  Chapter 7 is the one this book exists for. Grace co-owns a print studio in Montreal with a brother whose signature is required on the refinancing, and whose name has been on the account since 2011. It is written for women whose pen is not their own, it names the professional to see and the point at which this book stops, and it does not pretend that everything is a mindset problem. Appendix C is the field guide the rest of the category does not have: five real approval structures, what sits inside each one, and the document to ask for.  What replaces the permission slip is a record. One page per decision, four lines, written before and kept after: what I decided, what I knew at the time, what I accepted as risk, and what I will do if it fails. A permit is granted by somebody else and can be withdrawn by somebody else. A record is evidence, and evidence survives being wrong.  There is also the part most books leave out. Some signatures are real. A co-signer can decline, a licence holder can refuse, a court order can arrive in the post. This book separates the signatures that can actually stop you from the opinions that can only react, and then does something unusual with the difference: it tells you which one you are dealing with, and what to do on Monday either way.  Nobody is coming to countersign. That is not bad news.