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Discover what it means to truly trust God, and how a deep relationship with him can bring life and joy into marriage. Renowned family counselor, seminar speaker, and author Gary Smalley gives insight into five truths that can transform marriage.Sharing openly from his own relationship with his wife, Norma, Gary shows why both husbands and wives need:An independent energy source to recharge their spiritual batteriesSomeone each can talk to about anything and at any timeAn understanding of their emotions and what they meanReassurance that their trials have meaningA shared mission they can strive for together

Over 600,000 copies sold!Crack the code on what motivates your man and how you can build a better marriage together!So you want your husband to . . .Be sensitive to your emotional and romantic needs?Comfort you when you're down?Spend more time with you?Listen to what you have to say?Appreciate you?Do more around the house?Spend time with the kids?Be your most intimate friend?In this revised and updated edition of his classic bestseller, Gary Smalley explains how women can use their natural, God-given qualities to build a better marriage. He helps women understand not only the way men think, but also how to move a man's heart.Using the latest research, stories from his own marriage, and case histories and biblical examples, Gary Smalley offers an insider's perspective into the world of men, including practical help and application so wives can deepen their relationships with their husbands and build a lasting marriage.Companion to If Only He Knew. Spanish edition also available.

Over 600,000 copies sold!The perfect guide for husbands who want to love their wives and strengthen their marriages in a way like never before.So you want your wife to . . .Understand you?Appreciate you?Be more responsive sexually?Support you during hard times?Admire you?Share your interests?Listen to what you have to say?In this revised and updated edition of his classic bestseller, Gary Smalley explains a woman's deepest needs, shows men how to meet those needs, and gives ten simple steps to strengthen any marriage. He helps men to understand not only how to respond to a woman's feelings, but also how to make her feel important.Using the latest research, humorous and touching illustrations from his own life, as well as case histories and biblical examples, Gary Smalley maps a blueprint to a better marriage that will have a deep and lasting impact on men and their wives.Companion to For Better or for Best. Spanish edition also available.

Fulfilling marriages don't just happen. Truly joyful marriages are a lot of work!In Hidden Keys of a Loving, Lasting Marriage, bestselling author Gary Smalley shares the principles of strong marriages. He points out the common problems between husbands and wives. And he shows how to turn those troubles into teamwork.Hidden Keys of a Loving, Lasting Marriage explores:Two reasons why marriages failHow to meet the needs of your spouseHow a husband's lack of affection weakens a marriageCrucial differences between men and womenHow to motivate your spouse to listen to youThis book is a combination of Smalley's earlier published works, If Only He Knew and For Better or for Best. The first half of the book discusses the husband's part in building a successful relationship. The second half of the book shows how wives can nurture their marriages. Good marriages require both husband and wife working together to understand, appreciate, and honor one another. This book shows you how to do just that.

Over 600,000 copies sold!

Crack the code on what motivates your man and how you can build a better marriage together!

So you want your husband to . . .

Be sensitive to your emotional and romantic needs?Comfort you when you''re down?Spend more time with you?Listen to what you have to say?Appreciate you?Do more around the house?Spend time with the kids?Be your most intimate friend?

In this revised and updated edition of his classic bestseller, Gary Smalley explains how women can use their natural, God-given qualities to build a better marriage. He helps women understand not only the way men think, but also how to move a man''s heart.

Using the latest research, stories from his own marriage, and case histories and biblical examples, Gary Smalley offers an insider''s perspective into the world of men, including practical help and application so wives can deepen their relationships with their husbands and build a lasting marriage.

Companion to If Only He Knew. Spanish edition also available.

Over 600,000 copies sold!

The perfect guide for husbands who want to love their wives and strengthen their marriages in a way like never before.

So you want your wife to . . .

Understand you?Appreciate you?Be more responsive sexually?Support you during hard times?Admire you?Share your interests?Listen to what you have to say?

In this revised and updated edition of his classic bestseller, Gary Smalley explains a woman''s deepest needs, shows men how to meet those needs, and gives ten simple steps to strengthen any marriage. He helps men to understand not only how to respond to a woman''s feelings, but also how to make her feel important.

Using the latest research, humorous and touching illustrations from his own life, as well as case histories and biblical examples, Gary Smalley maps a blueprint to a better marriage that will have a deep and lasting impact on men and their wives.

Companion to For Better or for Best. Spanish edition also available.

Este manual de instrucciones para los hombres deja claras las distinciones entre los sexos y da una perspectiva refrescante sobre cómo construir un matrimonio más fuerte.

Gary Smalley explica las necesidades más profundas de la mujer, le muestra al hombre cómo satisfacerlas, y provee diez pasos simples para fortalecer cualquier matrimonio. Ayuda a los hombres a entender cómo responder a las emociones de la mujer tanto como hacerla sentir importante. Smalley emplea ilustraciones chistosas a la vez que conmovedoras de su propia vida, además de estudios de caso y ejemplos bíblicos, para diseñar un plano para un mejor matrimonio.

In this revised and updated edition, learn how the biblical gift of "The Blessing" is key to a child’s self-worth and emotional well-being. Children of every age long for the gift of The Blessing—the unconditional love and approval that comes from a healthy relationship with their parents.

This life-changing gift for Christian parents and their children, essential for instilling a deep sense of worthiness and unshakable emotional well-being, contains five essential elements:

Meaningful touchA spoken messageAttaching high valuePicturing a special futureAn active commitment

Offering solid, practical advice and a fresh perspective on making this gift a bigger part of our families, The Blessing powerfully communicates these biblically based elements as necessary to prepare children for positive future relationships, including their relationship with a loving God.

New to this updated edition are:

Giving The Blessing to others in your circle of influencePractical application tools and stories of how this is lived outInsight and help for those who didn’t receive The BlessingHow to create a lifestyle of blessing others

If you have missed out on the approval of your parents, the final chapters are for you. They include help for those who grew up without their own parent''s blessing and provide ideas for blessing events.

In this revised and updated edition, learn how the biblical gift of "The Blessing" is key to a child’s self-worth and emotional well-being. Children of every age long for the gift of The Blessing—the unconditional love and approval that comes from a healthy relationship with their parents.This life-changing gift for Christian parents and their children, essential for instilling a deep sense of worthiness and unshakable emotional well-being, contains five essential elements:Meaningful touchA spoken messageAttaching high valuePicturing a special futureAn active commitmentOffering solid, practical advice and a fresh perspective on making this gift a bigger part of our families, The Blessing powerfully communicates these biblically based elements as necessary to prepare children for positive future relationships, including their relationship with a loving God.New to this updated edition are:Giving The Blessing to others in your circle of influencePractical application tools and stories of how this is lived outInsight and help for those who didn’t receive The BlessingHow to create a lifestyle of blessing othersIf you have missed out on the approval of your parents, the final chapters are for you. They include help for those who grew up without their own parent's blessing and provide ideas for blessing events.

Winning your wife back from emotional or physical separation is more than doing the same things with more intensity. It involves developing a whole new strategy to overcome what seem to be overwhelming odds to attain a come-from-behind victory. In Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too late, Gary Smalley utilizes the following game plan to significantly increase your chances for a "miracle comeback":Understand "penalty flags"Open a closed spiritHonor your wife and childrenDevelop sacrificial loveInitiate change in yourselfBe accountable by joining a support groupThrough true stories of previously separated couples, you'll see how the principles illustrated in this plan have been fleshed out in the lives of real people and can lead to a successful reconciliation. Although there is no guarantee that you will win your wife back, you can still experience personal triumph and gain significant yardage in becoming the godly man you were intended to be.

Your marriage may be beginning to crumble. Or it may already be in shambles. Its present condition does not determine its future, though. You do.Imagine building a home on a foundation of sand or mud. Renovating or redecorating your home would be senseless because at any moment the whole house could collapse due to a faulty foundation. Before changing flooring, wall colors, window treatments, and furniture, you would need to seek out an architect to first firm up the foundation.Likewise, winning your husband back necessitates more than simply rearranging the old stuff in your relationship. You may decide to fight differently than you did in the past, but if the old unresolved anger is allowed to remain, then nothing will genuinely change in our marriage. Winning Your Husband Back Before It's Too Late targets the foundational weaknesses in your marriage. By developing an overall plan to win back your husband, you will learn how to:Discover what causes distance in marriageUnderstand the man you marriedBecome wholeExamine personality differencesBuild commitmentCommunicate more successfullyWinning Your Husband Back Before It's Too Late can help you rebuild a strong marriage in which you and your husband see each other through Christ's eyes and become one in Him.

Make your marriage the safest place on earth.Of all the best-selling books and award-winning videos Dr. Gary Smalley has produced for couples, I Promise is his most important and most revolutionary work ever. A decade of focused research has brought him to this startling new conclusion: Great marriages are built on a foundation of trust, not behavioral skills.So not only is a harmonious, long-lasting relationship within every couple's grasp, but emotional security is the cornerstone for the relationship you've always wanted. That  means you don't have to be a relationship guru to connect deeply with your spouse after all! You simply need to feel secure in your marriage – and to help your spouse do the same. Then the best relationship possible will happen naturally.Creating security is easier than you think. It takes only five simple promises to each other. Promises you can most certainly make – promises this book will equip you to keep.Writing in his trademark style, Dr. Smalley delivers a lifetime of information, true experiences, encouragement, and wisdom for anyone who wants their marriage to be not just safe, but the safest place on earth.

Volver a amar ha sido pensado, en primer lugar, con la idea de ayudar a las parejas a escudriñar sus corazones, para que puedan aprender a abrirse totalmente y aprovechar la intimidad y la maravilla que el nuevo matrimonio puede traer. En segundo lugar, el contenido de este libro está destinado a ser el recurso indispensable y vital que los pastores y los líderes de iglesias usen para ayudar a las parejas casadas en segundas nupcias a resolver los problemas de sus corazones, antes que se conviertan en un estorbo e impidan que su matrimonio prospere.The Heart of Remarriage is designed first and foremost to help couples examine their hearts, so that they can learn to open them fully and embrace the intimacy and wonder that remarriage can bring. Second, the content of this book is created to be a much-needed and overdue resource that church leaders and pastors can use to help remarrying couples work through their heart issues before they become heart blockages that keep their marriage from thriving.Available in English from Regal.

An unopened gift. A broken vow. A tragic fire. Sometimes there are wounds that even time can't heal.Max and Claire Beaumont seem to have the perfect marriage. They live in a beautiful home, have four wonderful children and everything else that success and money can buy. Yet beneath this picture-perfect exterior, Claire's life is falling apart. She can no longer hold her peace and keep up appearances.After all the silent years, she must speak the truth.As their lives unravel, deep needs and even deeper hurts are revealed. Not only the wounds between husband and wife, but family wounds as well. Will this time of soul-searching and conflict bring them closer together--or tear their marriage apart?It's a strange irony to leave home in search of a safe harbor. Yet that is often where the journey begins . . . especially when it is time to mend.A Time to Mend is the first novel in the Safe Harbor series. Drawing on the insights of best-selling marriage expert Gary Smalley, the series explores the joys and struggles of marriage, family, and faith.

Out of your heart flow your words and actions. Change your heart, and you'll change your life.According to best-selling author Dr. Gary Smalley, nobody has to live by the destructive subtle lies or believe the distortions of truth this world holds out to us. There are steps, strategies, and beliefs people can bring to their lives to either totally transform them or quietly improve them-and it all starts with hiding God's Word in their hearts.Hiding God's Word in his heart radically changed the life of Smalley himself, and he is seeing it revolutionize the lives of people around him as well-from lust, materialism, selfishness, anger, stress, overeating, anxiety, and guilt, just to name a few. No matter a person's age, experiences, or previous patterns, this book will guide readers to the whys and hows of orchestrating their beliefs to forever change their lives and relationships.

This best selling book has been completely revised and expanded with new author insights and stories on each of the Promise Keeper's seven promises. Men will find practical ways to deepen their Christian walk with encouraging chapters from Bill Bright, James Dobson, Gary Smalley and Luis Palau and many others.

For years Gary Smalley has helped millions of couples throughout North America enrich their relationships and deepen their bonds of love and companionship. In this extraordinary book, he shows you how to stay in love through all the stages of life. From first attraction to lifelong commitment, Gary's proven techniques and practical advice show you how to pursue and keep the love you want, and how to energize your relationship with enduring, passion-filled love. In this book you'll learn how to: Understand and use love's best-kept secret Deal with the number one enemy of loveTurn headaches into more loveIncrease your energy to keep lovingFind the power to keep on loving your spouseUse normal conflicts as doorways to intimacyRead a woman's built-in marriage manual twelve waysDivorce-proof your marriage Develop the five vital signs of a healthy marriageRespond to your partner's number one requestFind the powerful secret to great loveBring out the best in your maddening mate With humor, empathy, and insight, Gary Smalley inspires you to fall in love with life and enjoy the deep satisfaction of a lifelong love. Down-to-earth examples, touching personal experiences, and inspiring spiritual principles will motivate you to bring about positive changes in your marriage-whether or not your mate is a willing participant. You'll learn how to tap resources at hand to help you follow through with your journey-and make your love last forever.

Discover a simple yet profound plan for a marriage of depth, warmth, and excitement! Guide your marriage for a lifetime by learning how to make your spouse feel truly honored, keep courtship alive, rebuild trust, and become best friends with your family.Love is more than a feeling. It is a choice. And while that sounds less than romantic, nobody gets married and ever plans on getting a divorce—but every marriage is headed for both happy and hard times. According to family counselor and bestselling author Gary Smalley, good marriages are no accident. And deciding to love—in the practical ways outlined here—can result in relationships that are tougher than those tough times.Using stories from couples he has counseled, spiritual lessons, and emotional word pictures, Smalley teaches biblical principles and practical techniques for building, re-building, and nurturing relationships.This classic guide, perfect for gifting, is ideal for newly engaged couples, newlyweds, and veteran married couples alike. You will learn how to:Learn the art of meaningful conversationEnergize your mate in 60 secondsFind the surprising key to satisfying sexDiscover the surprising secret of a close-knit familyTap into the unfailing power source behind a great marriageIn this timeless bestseller, Smalley and Trent explain how to take advantage of the unique strengths of women and men to forge stronger marriages that will withstand the greatest tests.Love is a Decision is also available in Spanish, El amore s una decision.

A repeat bestseller for two decades, this child-rearing classic cuts to the heart of the anger and alienation that mar so many modern homes. In this ultimately practical book, Gary Smalley outlines effective steps for parents to open up a child that has shut them out. He describes family-tested ways for parents to set limits and enforce them, and he reveals the simple but powerful secret for achieving a close-knit family. Learn proven parenting methods that can spell the difference between an angry, rebellious, distant child and a happy, cooperative one.

Principios bíblicos que han sido ampliamente comprobados en la vida de más de treinta mil personas.

Una ayuda para padres o para todos aquellos que tengan niños o jóvenes a su alrededor. Uno de los libros más vendidos durante dos décadas, este clásico sobre la educación de los hijos corta de raíz la ira y la alienación que dañan muchos hogares actuales. En este definitivamente práctico libro, Gary Smalley delinea pasos eficaces para que los padres puedan llegar a un hijo que les ha cerrado la puerta. Él lo describe como formas comprobadas en el hogar para que los padres puedan establecer límites y cumplirlos, además, revela el sencillo pero poderoso secreto para lograr una familia muy unida. Aprenda métodos comprobados para la crianza de los hijos que pueden hacer la diferencia entre un niño enojado, rebelde, distante y uno feliz y cooperador.

Los matrimonios satisfactorios no suceden por casualidad, sino que son edificados sobre principios comprobados y esenciales para el desarrollo de cualquier relación cordial y amorosa. El gozo del amor comprometido es un excelente libro que te ayudará a conocer a tu esposo y te dará un fundamento para construir un matrimonio mejor.Cada capítulo está basado en prioridades que son de importancia para la mujer, como:-Cómo incrementar el deseo de tu esposo de pasar más tiempo contigo.-Cómo aumentar el anhelo de tu esposo por escucharte con toda su atención y en forma constante. -Cómo aumentar la sensibilidad de tu esposo.Estos son sólo algunos de los puntos que trata este libro y que te ayudarán a tener una relación más sólida y satisfactoria en tu matrimonio.

Una forma de expresión que logra comunicar los pensamientos y los sentimientos más íntimos.

Una guía para hallar el balance adecuado entre los aspectos fuertes y tiernos del amor.