Pegging Book

Lyndzi Miller has been a sexual educator at The Tool Shed: An Erotic Boutique since 2012, and is its current assistant manager. She established the Milwaukee Poly Group in 2008, facilitating discussion and support group meetings every month since. She also hosts the bi-weekly podcast Polyamory Uncensored, on which she interviews ethically non-monogamous folks on their polyamorous journeys. She is an avid knitter, a mother, a burlesque dancer, and a huge geek. Tristan Taormino is an award-winning author, columnist, sex educator, speaker, media maker, and podcast host. She is the author of eight books and editor or co-editor of 25 anthologies. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world, is the host and executive producer of the long running podcast Sex Out Loud, and is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program. She runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals. Queer, non-monogamous writer Cooper S. Beckett began his writing career as a podcaster as host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast and a speaker in the sexuality education community. He wrote My Life on the Swingset, a memoir of his first five years in non-monogamy, then followed that up with two novels, A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching the Swingularity. He lives in Chicago with Elle, his wife, constant, and binary star; Egon, their ghost terrier; and their black cat, Willow.

Cooper and Lyndzi have created the smart, fun, accessible guide to pegging that we needed. Whether you are curious or already a pegging pro, this is a worthwhile addition to your sex ed book collection." - JoEllen Notte (sex educator and author of The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren) "The Pegging Book is a wonderful addition to sex ed literature! As an act, pegging has gained popularity among people of all genders, sexual orientations, and ages. It is great to finally have a single resource which teaches how to peg as well as gives it cultural context and history. Beckett and Miller have done justice to a topic which goes so much deeper than a titillating headline! In addition to great content, the book is beautifully illustrated and provides readers with a solid understanding of anatomy and pleasure centers. This is a must-buy for any person looking to understand how to peg or the act's cultural significance."- Rebecca E. Blanton (writer, podcaster, and kink educator) "The Pegging Book is more than a sex guide. It's a smart and compassionate exploration of pegging as a cultural and sexual practice. Cooper and Lyndzi hold the reader's hand through an intimidating sexual act with the kindness and tact of a cool friend. This book will reframe your entire concept of what sex should look and feel like beyond PIV penetration. It tackles every question a beginner might have: What does a prostate orgasm feel like? What kind of strap-on should I buy? And, gasp, does getting pegged make you gay? The Pegging Book is a necessary addition to every sex-positive reader's library." - Ella Dawson (sex and cultural critic)

• Foreword: Welcome to the RevolutionIntroduction: New Book, Who Dis?Content NotesWhat Is Pegging?Why Call It Pegging?Other Verbiage AnatomyAn Owner's Guide to the Male Reproductive SystemThe P- Spot vs. the G- SpotWhy Pegging Is AwesomeBenefits of ExplorationWhat If It Makes Me Gay?Role Reversal: Understanding Different Points of ViewWhat If I Don't Like It?Is Pegging a Kink?The Prostate OrgasmIt Won't Stop: The Epic Prostate OrgasmOther Thoughts on Prostate OrgasmsThe Leaking ProstateBut What About …?Social StigmaMedia Representations of PeggingInternalized Misogyny and Fragile MasculinityThe Anal Shame EffectPhysical LimitationsEasing InCommunicationExternal Prostate MassageSpit Is Not LubeOn Your BackAddress the AnusGo for InsertionAnd Now…PeggingWhat of the Penis? Best Pegging PositionsAftercareHealth BenefitsSafety and ComfortDoes It Hurt?Hugs, Not DrugsDo You Dig My Flare?Shit HappensSafer SexWhat's in It for Me?Beyond the PegTit for TatMistress PeggyFucking PleasureWhat If They Don't Come?Best Tools for the JobWhere to BuyHarnesses/Straps Dildos LubesPositioning Aids The Giving RevolutionIndex